“I don’t agree with those who plunge headlong into the middle of the flood and who, accepting a turbulent life,struggle daily in great spirit with difficult circumstances. The wise person will endure that, but won’t choose it–choosing to be at peace, rather than at war.” Seneca, Moral Letters, 28.7
I try and to keep a balance in my life. Pick my battles and walk away when the ego says stay. But there are choices sometimes that can be made only to step up. The trumps four years leaves no other choice.